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She could have a better life if she put Jay in a nursing home. Or if she went back to using thethe government provided. But one looked indifferently without wiping Jay's mouth when he drooled. Others fell asleep on the night shift, inattentive while Jay suffered seizures.
It's hard for a mother to watch such lapses. The nurses don't love Jay. His parents do. So they have chosen to care for him on their own, and you will not find them feeling sorry for themselves — only for him.
A lesser man would leave, Eva says of her spouse, whom she has known since grade school in their homeland, the Philippines. A lesser woman would cringe at the wound care and bodily indignities that Eva has learned to manage for her son, Joseph says.
"I can't walk away from this. She can't. I'm very proud of my wife," he said.
On babies: A Yale study finds that babies are moral creatures:
At this point, the toddler was asked to take a treat away from one puppet. Like most children in this situation, the boy took it from the pile of the “naughty” one. But this punishment wasn’t enough — he then leaned over and smacked the puppet in the head.Observant parents aren't surprised. Hat tip to Wesley Smith, who sees this as more evidence of human exceptionalism.
Bonus: Babies filmmaker Thomas Balmes on what he learned from his observations:
"But as the film shows, a child in Mongolia can spend hours just watching the sky or a fly or the cat. He's the happiest child I have ever seen. ... These babies were all loved by their families, loved in different ways. A loved baby has all the advantages, no matter where it grows up."Emphasis added.
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